Melissa Febos

Febos grew up in Falmouth, Massachusetts. Her father was a sea captain, and her mother a therapist. She left home at sixteen after passing the GED, moved to Boston, and worked at an assortment of jobs including as a boatyard hand and as a chambermaid. She attended night courses at Harvard Extension School, then enrolled in The New School and moved to New York City in August 1999. She later earned an MFA at Sarah Lawrence College.[8]

Febos was the co-curator, with Rebecca Keith, of the monthly Mixer Reading and Music series on the Lower East Side for ten years.[9] A three-time MacDowell Colony fellow, she has received fellowships from Virginia Center for the Creative Arts, Vermont Studio Center, and the Bread Loaf Writers' Conference. Her essays have won awards from Prairie Schooner and StoryQuarterly, and for five years she was on the Board of Directors of Vida: Women in Literary Arts. She has taught at SUNY Purchase College, the Gotham Writers' Workshop, The New School, Sarah Lawrence College, New York University, and Utica College. Until 2020, she was an Associate Professor and MFA Director at Monmouth University.[10] Febos currently works as an Associate Professor at the University of Iowa, where she teaches in the Nonfiction Writing Program.

Febos has contributed to publications such as The New York Times, The Paris Review, Salon, Bomb, Hunger Mountain, Prairie Schooner, The Kenyon Review, Tin House, Granta, Post Road, Dissent (American magazine), Vogue (magazine), The Believer (magazine), The Sewanee Review, The Huffington Post, Bitch Magazine and The Chronicle of Higher Education.[8]

Whip Smart resulted in a front-page appearance on the cover of the New York Post, a feature interview on NPR's radio program Fresh Air with Terry Gross, a guest appearance on Anderson Cooper's talk show, and an appearance on CNN's Dr. Drew show. Abandon Me was one of the best reviewed essay collections of 2017.[11] The New Yorker called it "mesmerizing" and wrote that "the sheer fearlessness of the narrative is captivating."[12]

Febos identifies as bisexual.[13]

• 2018 Vermont Studio Center fellowship
• 2018 BAU Institute fellowship at The Camargo Foundation
• 2018 LAMBDA Literary's Jeanne Córdova Prize for Lesbian/Queer Nonfiction[14]
• 2018 The Publishing Triangle finalist for the Judy Grahn Award for Lesbian Nonfiction[15]
• 2018 LAMBDA Literary Award finalist in Memoir/Biography[16]
• 2018 The Sarah Verdone Writing Award, Lower Manhattan Cultural Council[17]
• 2017 Ragdale Residency
• 2015 Vermont Studio Center fellowship
• 2015 Lower Manhattan Cultural Council Process Space residency
• 2015 The Center for Women Writers Creative Nonfiction Prize
• 2014 The MacDowell Colony Fellowship
• 2014 A Story Quarterly Essay Prize
• 2014 Virginia Center for Creative Arts Residency
• 2013 The Barbara Deming Memorial Fund fellowship
• 2013 The Prairie Schooner Creative Nonfiction Prize
• 2012 Bread Loaf Writers Conference Fellowship
• 2011 The MacDowell Colony Fellowship
• 2010 The MacDowell Colony Fellowship [18]

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