Why Won't You Date Me?
Why Won't You Date Me? is a comedy and relationship podcast hosted by Nicole Byer which debuted on December 1, 2017 on the HeadGum network. The podcast features Byer and a guest exploring why she is single, while discussing topics related to love, life, and sex. The podcast has been a part of the Team Coco network starting with the January 15, 2021 episode with Conan O'Brien.[1]
Why Won't You Date Me? | |
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Presentation | |
Hosted by | Nicole Byer |
Genre | Comedy |
Language | English |
Updates | Weekly (Friday) |
Length | 40–80 minutes |
Publication | |
Original release | December 1, 2017 – present |
Provider | HeadGum (2017-2021) Team Coco (2021-present) |
Content
The format of an episode typically involves Byer introducing her guest/s, as they then talk about their respective experiences with sex, dating, relationships, and love. In most episodes, the guest will critique Byer's online dating profiles, before closing the episode by discussing whether or not they would date her - and why.
While the featured guest is often another comedian, Byer has also hosted former partners,[2][3] as well as her own childhood friends.[4] Notable guests who have appeared on Why Won't You Date Me? include Sasheer Zamata,[5] Rachel Bloom,[6] Jameela Jamil,[7] Joel Kim Booster,[8] Vicky Vox,[8] and Trixie Mattel.[9]
Reception
In 2018, Why Won't You Date Me? was labelled by The Daily Dot's John-Michael Bond as one of the 20 best podcasts on Spotify, with Bond regarding the podcast as "a cathartic romp through the hellscape of modern dating, led by a joyful host who never lets the darkness win."[10] Jillian Selzer of Insider described the podcast as "a hilarious chronicle of (Nicole Byer's) dating life as she connects her own struggles to the bigger issues within the dating world," further writing that "Byer's personality is loud, outgoing, and wildly entertaining,"[11] while Elite Daily's Annie Foskett recommended the podcast as a "must-listen," praising Byer's transparency about her dating life as being "extremely refreshing."[12]
In 2019, Why Won't You Date Me? won Outstanding Foreign Series at the Canadian Podcasting Awards, which is "awarded to a breakthrough show – across any format and category – produced outside of Canada."[13]
Becca James, writing for Vulture in 2019, called the show "one of the most forthcoming and funny podcasts around, and [the live episode with guest Vicky Vox] offers a perfect introduction by getting to the gist, which goes beyond the titular question and into the hilarious depths of human connection."[8]
Zack Peter, writing for PopSugar, said, "Nicole Byer is a real treat! Her podcast takes you through her dating chronicles. If you're single, you'll love listening to Nicole every week. She's irreverent and has no filter. You'll find parts of yourself in her quest to find love."
Notable guests
Notable guests on the show have included:
- Sasheer Zamata
- Emily Heller
- Alison Rich
- Jacob Wysocki
- Matteo Lane
- Brooks Wheelan
- Jen D'Angelo
- Mike Mitchell
- Zainab Johnson
- Zeke Nicholson
- Jon Gabrus
- Carl Tart
- Nick Wiger
- Sabrina Jalees
- Marcella Arguello
- Ego Nwodim
- Wes from Nailed It!
- Jameela Jamil
- Pandora Boxx
- Baron Vaughn
- Rachel Bloom
- Trixie Mattel
- Naomi Ekperigin
- Grace Helbig and Mamrie Hart
- Jake and Amir
- Dulcé Sloan
- Punam Patel
- Cameron Esposito
- Beth Stelling
- Vicky Vox
- Shangela
- Alice Wetterlund
- Johnny Pemberton
- Jessica McKenna
- DeRay Davis
- Monique Heart
- Ashley Nicole Black
- Justin Simien
- Ron Funches
- Erika Lust
- Echo Kellum
- William Belli
- Diona Reasonover
- Michaela Watkins
- John Milhiser
- Whitney Cummings
- Akilah Hughes
- Kate Spencer
- Kevin T. Porter
- Eric Edelstein
- Paul Rust
- Ira Madison III
- Jamie Loftus
- Tawny Newsome
- BenDeLaCreme
- Michelle Buteau
- Monét X Change
- Jinkx Monsoon
- Aja
- Kirby Howell-Baptiste
- Santina Muha
- Bob the Drag Queen
- The Vixen
- Jeffrey Bowyer-Chapman
- Roxane Gay
- Gabby Sidibe
- Amber Ruffin
- Ziwe
- Sam Jay
- Dewayne Perkins
- Latrice Royale
- Yassir Lester
- Sydnee Washington
- Mitra Jouhari
- Patti Harrison
- Priyanka
- Langston Kerman
- Jiggly Caliente
- Roy Wood Jr.
- Conan O'Brien
- Deon Cole
Episodes
Episodes are released weekly, on Fridays. As of July 3, 2020, the podcast has aired 140 episodes.[14]
List of Why Won't You Date Me? episodes | ||||
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# | Title | Length | Date | |
1 | "1: Tinder Troubles w/ Will Hines" | 0:56:52 | December 1, 2017 | |
On the first episode of Why Won't You Date Me, Will Hines (UCB Comedy, Don't Get Me Started, CollegeHumor) joins Nicole to rate her Tinder game, discuss her past green card marriage, and talk about a make out session they had. | ||||
2 | "2: Bad Hookups w/ Dan Lippert" | 1:00:02 | December 8, 2017 | |
Dan Lippert (UCB Comedy, Comedy Bang Bang) joins us to talk about Nicole's abandonment issues, the time she blew him in a bathroom, and Nicole shares the time she slept with a guy with a literally broken dick. | ||||
3 | "3: Nicole's Pussy Pic That Went Too Far w/ Sasheer Zamata" | 0:47:59 | December 15, 2017 | |
Nicole's dear friend Sasheer Zamata (SNL) joins her to rate her Tinder bio, perform a live-reading of her Tinder conversations and Nicole shares the time the pussy pic she sent to a guy was deemed "too far". | ||||
4 | "4: The Science Behind Dating Apps w/ Emily Heller" | 1:04:34 | December 21, 2017 | |
Emily Heller (Baby Geniuses) joins Nicole to discuss the stats behind dating apps, steamy movies and the most boring man Nicole has ever dated. | ||||
5 | "5: What's Up with Hair Conditioner? w/ Ben Axelrad" | 0:50:13 | December 29, 2017 | |
Nicole's friend Ben Axelrad (UCB Comedy, Definitely Dying podcast) joins her to talk therapy, horrible dating stories, and why Nicole and Ben stopped dating after three dates. | ||||
6 | "6: We're Getting Juiced w/ Alison Rich" | 0:56:18 | January 4, 2018 | |
Alison Rich (The Goldbergs, Party Over Here) joins Nicole for a nice juicing. Get ready to listen to some crazy Tinder hookup stories, find out how Nicole is connected to the Kardashians, and the time Nicole slept with a man who had a lizard in his room. | ||||
7 | "7: Would You Date a Chucklefucker? w/ George Kareman" | 0:46:17 | January 12, 2018 | |
George Kareman (UCB Comedy, Long Haired Businessmen) is on the show to teach Nicole how to use Hinge, and if they would ever date a chucklefucker. Nicole reveals her sneaky plan to make out with George. | ||||
8 | "8: Do Men Not Respond to Funny Women? w/ Joanna Bradley" | 0:52:30 | January 19, 2018 | |
Joanna Bradley (UCBComedy, Saturday Night Live) joins Nicole to share some of their bad Craigslist hookup stories, discuss the challenges of dating as a female comedian, and reveal the time they hooked up. | ||||
9 | "9: Growing Up Fat w/ Jacob Wysocki" | 0:57:30 | January 26, 2018 | |
Jacob Wysocki (Loosely Exactly Nicole, UCB Comedy) joins Nicole to discuss being fat, going through puberty, and dating "normies". | ||||
10 | "10: Bad Threesomes w/ Matteo Lane" | 0:56:08 | February 2, 2018 | |
Nicole's good friend Matteo Lane (Guy Code, @midnight, Ladylike) is on the podcast to rate Nicole's Tinder, talk about their experiences with threesomes, and discuss the horrors of sucking a dirty dick. | ||||
11 | "11: Featuring the Man Who's Floor I Peed On w/ EJ Wolborsky" | 0:43:55 | February 9, 2018 | |
EJ isn't a comedian, but just a nice guy whose floor Nicole peed on after a drunken party at an Apple store. Hear them reconcile on what happened that fateful night, and give some wholesome dating advice. | ||||
12 | "12: Getting Drunk at the Movies w/ Brooks Wheelan" | 0:57:01 | February 16, 2013 | |
Brooks Wheelan (SNL) is on the show to discuss the ultra-exclusive Raya app, how he once got scabies from a girl he met in a liquor store parking lot, and the time he embarrassed himself in front of George Clooney. | ||||
13 | "13: Sexting w/ Jen D'Angelo" | 0:44:05 | February 23, 2018 | |
Jen D'Angelo (Workaholics, Loosely Exactly Nicole) is on the show to discuss terrible prank shows they've filmed, why Nicole hates Christmas, and sexting. | ||||
14 | "14: Dating Fans w/ Mike Mitchell" | 0:51:24 | March 2, 2018 | |
This week Mike Mitchell (The Birthday Boys, Doughboys, Love) is on the show to get his Tinder profile rated, discuss whether they would date fans, and why he doesn't like sharing a bed in a relationship. Things get real in this episode - you won't want to miss it. | ||||
15 | "15: The 5 Love Languages w/ Warren Burke" | 0:56:24 | March 9, 2018 | |
Warren Burke (Jimmy Kimmel Live!) talks Nicole through her intimacy issues, the 5 love languages, and the time she got mistaken for a hooker. | ||||
16 | "16: What a Time to be Alive w/ Langan Kingsley" | 0:51:20 | March 16, 2018 | |
Langan Kingsley (Corporate) joins Nicole to discuss masturbating in public, stalking exes on Instagram, and what Nicole really wants in a man. | ||||
17 | "17: Gay Bar Sidewalk Sale w/ Mano Agapion" | 0:57:03 | March 23, 2018 | |
Mano Agapion (UCB, Horny for Horror) joins Nicole to have a great discussion on race and gender identity, body dysmorphia, and a crazy Grindr threesome story. | ||||
18 | "18: The Fappening w/ Dan Black" | 0:57:55 | March 29, 2018 | |
What if shit actually tasted great, and that's why people eat ass? Dan Black (UCB, The Comedians of Wrestling podcast) is on the show to ask the real questions. Nicole introduces Dan to butt stuff, details her sexual encounter Word doc she keeps, and talks about the effects of the 2004 Fappening. | ||||
19 | "19: Nicole's finally on Raya! w/ Eliza Skinner" | 1:02:31 | April 6, 2018 | |
With the help from Eliza Skinner (The Late Late Show with James Corden, Drop the Mic) Nicole is finally on Raya! They discuss what the exclusive dating platform is like, and if they would ever date their own fans. Nicole also admits her love for shoplifting to her Tinder matches. Does it work? The answer may not surprise you. | ||||
20 | "20: Masturbating to Food w/ Marcy Jarreau" | 1:00:23 | April 13, 2018 | |
Nicole's good friend Marcy Jarreau (UCB), Loosely Exactly Nicole, Kar Dishin' It podcast) is on the show to discuss Nicole's hate for the Coffee Meets Bagel dating app, and soup. | ||||
21 | "21: Body Positivity w/ Tess Holliday" | 0:53:17 | April 20, 2018 | |
Tess Holliday is a plus-sized model who's attracted some creepy Instagram DMs. She's on the show to discuss body positivity, Nicole's latest Tinder failures, and the troubles of Skype sex. | ||||
22 | "22: Lying About Your Age Online w/ Molly Tarlov" | 0:49:21 | April 27, 2018 | |
Molly Tarlov (MTV's Awkward) joins Nicole to talk about their one night stands, Nicole's experiences on a Jewish dating app, and lying about your age online. | ||||
23 | "23: Advice from a Married Couple w/ Madeline Walter and Ben Greene" | 1:04:24 | May 4, 2018 | |
It's Why Won't You Date Me's first married couple guests! Madeline Walter (UCB, Definitely Dying podcast) and Ben Greene (UCB, On The Cusp podcast) discuss the crazy drunken story that nearly made them break up. Nicole shares the times she catfished guys on AIM and also shares her virginity story. | ||||
24 | "24: The World is Pretty Unfair w/ Jake Weisman" | 1:01:56 | May 11, 2018 | |
Jake Weisman (Corporate) joins Nicole to talk the traumatic incident that couldn't let him cum for a decade, his experience with Raya, and how he likes to slip into his Robin Williams character during sex. | ||||
25 | "25: Live from RuPaul's DragCon 2018 w/ Eureka O'Hara" | 0:53:13 | May 18, 2018 | |
It's Why Won't You Date Me's first live podcast! Eureka O'Hara (RuPaul's Drag Race season 9 & 10) joins Nicole to discuss what it's like to have sex in drag, how Drag Race prevents their contestants from hooking up, and answers questions from the audience. | ||||
26 | "26: Getting Paid for Sex w/ Meatball and Big Dipper" | 1:04:49 | May 25, 2018 | |
Buckle up, this episode is a wild one. Nicole is joined by drag queen Meatball and rapper Big Dipper! They discuss how they like to be choked in bed and the times they've gotten paid and have paid for sex. Nicole gets convinced to hire a male hooker for her next birthday. | ||||
27 | "27: Nicole's Figuring Out Her Sexuality w/ Zainab Johnson" | 0:51:41 | June 1, 2018 | |
Zainab Johnson (stand-up, HonesTEA with Z podcast) is here to answer all of Nicole's questions on the Muslim religion, what being "emotionally unavailable" means, and Nicole think she's finally figured out her sexuality. | ||||
28 | "28: Take a Look at Nicole's new Tinder Bio! w/ Zeke Nicholson" | 1:04:13 | June 8, 2018 | |
Zeke Nicholson (A.P. Bio, Take My Wife, Lopez) joins Nicole to share stories from their first acting gigs, discuss the incestuous feel of dating people in the comedy community, and Zeke rates Nicole's new Tinder bio! | ||||
29 | "29: Dating Thick w/ Jon Gabrus" | 1:06:20 | June 15, 2018 | |
The incredible Jon Gabrus (Raised by TV, Action Boyz, High & Mighty podcast) joins Nicole to share the adorable story on meeting his wife, and how it led him to make out with all of his friends in the process. Nicole confronts Gabrus on why he hypothetically wouldn't date her, shares more stories about her sleeping with cab drivers, and reads problematic Tinder messages. They also discuss the latest cases of sexual assault in the entertainment industry. | ||||
30 | "30: Why Won't You Bake with Me w/ Carl Tart" | 1:00:15 | June 22, 2018 | |
Carl Tart (Comedy Bang Bang, Party Over Here) joins Nicole to discuss their favorite memes, the crazy foods Nicole's been subjected to on Nailed It!, and why they like swearing in front of kids. | ||||
31 | "31: Love, Marriage, and Taxes w/ Nick Wiger" | 1:07:55 | June 29, 2018 | |
Nick Wiger (Doughboys, I Love You, America) is on the show to gush about the love for his wife, learn about Nicole's green card marriage, and talk about responses they get from horny Doughboy fans. Also stay tuned for Nicole's more recent Tinder stories, and Nick shares the time he saw the most boobs at once. | ||||
32 | "32: Racism in Hollywood w/ Oscar Montoya" | 1:20:49 | July 6, 2018 | |
Oscar Montoya (UCB, Inside the Disney Vault podcast) joins Nicole to talk through his four-year dry spell, Mario Batali's mitten hands, and the rampant racism in Los Angeles. | ||||
33 | "33: Nicole's Latest Tinder Failures w/ John Mason & Nicholas Stavola" | 0:55:52 | July 13, 2018 | |
Nicole's oldest, best friends John Mason and Nicholas Stavola reminisce about their old high school romances, why John wouldn't take Nicole to their prom, and Nicole shares some hot pussy facts. | ||||
34 | "34: Nicole's Opening Bumble Messages w/ Fran Gillespie" | 1:10:29 | July 20, 2018 | |
Fran Gillespie (SNL, Love, The Good Place) joins Nicole to discuss why it's harder for women to openly discuss sex than men. Nicole describes her Raya application process and shares her latest unsuccessful Bumble messages. | ||||
35 | "35: Shoplifting Stories w/ Sabrina Jalees" | 0:58:51 | July 27, 2018 | |
Sabrina Jalees (Netflix's The Comedy Lineup) joins Nicole to discuss hot celebrities they've taped to their bedroom walls, why they both enjoy gay porn, and both share their shoplifting stories. | ||||
36 | "36: Boyfriendless Forever w/ Marcella Arguello" | 1:01:18 | August 3, 2018 | |
Marcella Arguello (standup, @midnight) joins Nicole to share their love for sucking dick, her worry for being fetishized as a tall woman, and gives Nicole great advice for her Tinder profile. | ||||
37 | "37: Nicole Answers a Dating Questionnaire w/ Ego Nwodim" | 1:05:31 | August 10, 2018 | |
Ego Nwodim joins Nicole to talk therapy and the times they've shat their pants. Ego takes a look at Nicole's updated Tinder profile. Nicole re-reads her Bagel Meets Coffee questionnaire and realizes why she may have never gotten matches on it. | ||||
38 | "38: Why'd You Stop Dating Me? w/ Nick Snow" | 1:00:10 | August 17, 2018 | |
Nicole and Nick Snow dated for a month, before Nick decided they should stop seeing one another. Now he's on the podcast to reminisce their first date, get closure on some things, and be confronted on why he stopped dating her. | ||||
39 | "39: Wes from Nailed It is here!" | 0:53:42 | August 24, 2018 | |
Weston Bahr is on the podcast to discuss what it's like to be harassed by Nicole on Nailed It!, creepy DMs he gets from fans, all the dick jokes they've had to cut from the show, and so much more in this gossip-filled episode. | ||||
40 | "40: Woke Therapy w/ Fiona Landers" | 0:49:32 | August 31, 2018 | |
Things get heavy in this episode of Why Won't You Date Me. Fiona Landers (UCB, Full House) discusses her previous marriage with a comedian, how a death in the family affected her dating life, and ghosting. Nicole reads her Hinge dating app answers and realizes it could be the reason she never gets matches. | ||||
41 | "41: Booty Call Horror Story w/ Jameela Jamil" | 1:01:55 | September 7, 2018 | |
Jameela Jamil (The Good Place) discuss how she was cast in The Good Place, the rejection she got as a child, and shares her most horrifying Tinder date. | ||||
42 | "42: Nicole Plays Matchmaker w/ Jason Kim" | 0:51:22 | September 14, 2018 | |
Jason Kim (Love, Girls) is on the podcast. They talk about how they met over a mutual love for Beyoncé, Nicole shares her latest cocaine bender, and describes the turn of events that led her to loving her body. | ||||
43 | "43: Sex Tapes w/ Roz Drezfalez" | 0:55:30 | September 21, 2018 | |
Roz Drezfalez (drag queen, stand-up) discusses the life and struggles of dating as a drag queen. Nicole expresses why dating a improv comic is a turn off for her, and shares her interest in having a sex-tape leaked on Pornhub. | ||||
44 | "44: The Trouble with Threesomes w/ Jazzmyne Robbins" | 0:55:09 | September 28, 2018 | |
Jazzmyne Robbins (Buzzfeed) is on to discuss thirsting publicly on Instagram, the times they’ve contemplated sleeping with fans, and the problematic nature of threesomes. | ||||
45 | "45: Nicole's Horny w/ Mary Sasson" | 0:59:32 | October 5, 2018 | |
Mary Sasson (UCB) discusses the ever growing trends in women's bodies. Nicole talks about the worst dicks she's slept with and makes an apology to her Pizza match on Tinder. Also, Nicole's like really, really horny in this one. | ||||
46 | "46: Limp Dick w/ Pandora Boxx" | 0:59:12 | October 12, 2018 | |
Pandora Boxx (RuPaul's Drag Race) discusses life after Drag Race, being in an open relationship, and wild fan encounters. Nicole describes her latest nightmare date filled with red flags. | ||||
47 | "47: Ice Cold Kiss w/ Tony Rodriguez" | 1:02:43 | October 19, 2018 | |
Tony Rodriguez (UCB) discusses his worst dates, the importance of communication during sex, and bad kissing. Nicole shares the time she showed her pussy to her roommate. | ||||
48 | "48: Sex Tips to Make Your Girl Cum w/ Ify Nwadiwe" | 1:00:35 | October 26, 2018 | |
Ify Nwadiwe (@midnight, Buzzfeed Video, Nerdificent podcast) joins us to discuss playing D&D with the Sprouse twins, provides sex tips for the guys, and living vicariously through thirst traps. Nicole's pussy is sick this episode. She shares her latest standup horror stories, and crazy Tinder messages. | ||||
49 | "49: Vagina Talk w/ Megan Neuringer" | 1:04:44 | November 2, 2018 | |
Megan Neuringer (writer, Portlandia) talks about body anxieties at every size, teaches Nicole about her ovaries and how to find the best relationship advice on Google. Nicole realizes she used to cock block her dad as a child, and discusses her suspicions of her male gynecologist. | ||||
50 | "50: Is It OK to Google Your Dates? w/ Kara Klenk" | 1:07:05 | November 9, 2018 | |
Turns out, talking about your relationship publicly on podcasts could be troublesome. Kara Klenk (Magic for Humans, stand-up) shares her experiences when her break-up details were announced on a podcast. Nicole has to start being careful what she says on WWYDM, cause turns out people she dating are listening to this. Oops! Also, Nicole's sister's eHarmony account has been hacked with photos of white women. The internet is straight up crazy. | ||||
51 | "51: Nicole Reviews Guy Fieri's Restaurant at the Burbank Airport w/ Justin Noble" | 0:59:05 | November 16, 2018 | |
Nicole opens up about her current dating life! She shares the story of her best date ever at Guy Fieri's restaurant at the Burbank airport. Justin Noble (Brooklyn Nine-Nine) joins Nicole to give her some texting advice, speculate what life must be like when you're pretty, and talk about the pilot they produced together. | ||||
52 | "52: Dating for Personality or Looks w/ Erin Whitehead" | 1:03:03 | November 23, 2018 | |
Erin Whitehead (Animals, Wild Horses) shares her experiences on a dating app designed for Apple fans, why she doesn't like relationships, and dating for looks vs personality. Nicole's shopping for a sex torso to practice her eye contact. | ||||
53 | "53: Nicole Does a Live Tarot Reading w/ Inessa Frantowski" | 0:58:22 | November 30, 2018 | |
Inessa Frantowski (UCB) performs a live tarot reading for Nicole, and boy, are the results dark. They also discuss at what point in the relationship do you have 'the talk', and changing yourself to attract potential partners. Nicole's giving up and starts scheming up a way to be on 90 Day Fiance. | ||||
54 | "54: Love, Lust, and Infatuation w/ Baron Vaughn" | 1:02:30 | December 7, 2018 | |
Baron Vaughn (Corporate, The New Negros) explains LOVE. What it is to be a love addict, and the differences on love, lust, and infatuation. He also shares his experiences being in non-monogamous relationships. Nicole addresses the recent reddit threads, explaining why her comedy is so dick-focused. | ||||
55 | "55: Getting Past Dick Size w/ Lisa Hanawalt" | 0:55:46 | December 14, 2018 | |
Lisa Hanawalt (Bojack Horseman, Baby Genuises podcast) discusses how to deal with boring guys, publicly declaring your love (like on this very podcast), and the complex behind needing a big dick for pleasurable sex. Nicole reads her latest dating app conversations and also convinces Lisa to eat Adam Conover's butt. | ||||
56 | "56: Dating Gay Twins w/ Joel Kim Booster" | 0:55:33 | December 21, 2018 | |
Joel Kim Booster joins Nicole to discuss their favorite porn narratives, cock and ball torture, and Joel describes his experience dating multiple sets of gay twins. A guy who ghosted Nicole is starting his own dating podcast, and it's not sitting well with her. | ||||
57 | "57: Scheduling Your Booty Calls w/ Raiza Licea" | 0:52:26 | December 28, 2018 | |
Raiza Licea (UCB) agrees that life is busy and sometimes you just gotta book time for a dicking. Nicole goes on a wild date with her Lyft driver, and reads her latest failed Tinder conversations. Nicole also discusses some crazy kinks and reveals a few of her own. | ||||
58 | "58: Finding your S/O's Pet Name w/ Elizabeth Ho" | 0:49:13 | January 4, 2019 | |
Did you know that couples with pet names statistically have longer lasting relationships? In today's episode, Nicole and Elizabeth Ho (Disjointed) consider what pet name they would want to have. Elizabeth discusses what it's like being in a competitive relationship with your S/O, and Nicole's providing relationship advice to fans over DMs. | ||||
59 | "59: Seeking Professional Advice w/ Dr. Chris Donaghue" | 0:46:25 | January 11, 2019 | |
Dr. Chris Donaghue (host of Loveline, sex and relationship therapist) provides Nicole with an honest assessment why she may be single. He provides her relationship advice and a Tinder bio makeover. He also shares how to manage dating multiple people at once, the importance of sharing your needs and kinks with your partner, and the importance in masturbating in this sex-positive episode! | ||||
60 | "60: Role-Playing w/ Rachel Bloom" | 0:55:32 | January 18, 2019 | |
Rachel Bloom (Crazy Ex-Girlfriend) has an open discussion about finding therapy and using medication to treat mental health. She also discusses why improvisers should not role-play in the bedroom. As kids, Nicole and Rachel both had imaginary friends they would have sex with. Nicole's given up on dating and considers dating a ghost. She also describes her love for cocaine. | ||||
61 | "61: All Things Panties w/ Eliot Glazer" | 1:07:13 | January 25, 2019 | |
Eliot Glazer (Broad City, New Girl) discusses spending money on nice underwear for your partner, the grimiest requests he's received on dates, and how people need to set boundaries in and out of a relationships. Nicole describes her NYE helicopter ride from hell. | ||||
62 | "62: Dealing with Creeps w/ Trixie Mattel" | 1:08:47 | February 1, 2019 | |
Trixie Mattel (winner of RuPaul's Drag Race: All Stars Season 3) discusses getting touched by strangers in public, being in an "It's Complicated" relationship on Facebook, shares getting catfished by a fan, and of course talks all about Drag Race All Stars! | ||||
63 | "63: Period Horror Stories w/ Toni Charline" | 1:14:59 | February 8, 2019 | |
Periods suck. Toni Charline (UCB) joins Nicole to share all their embarrassing period-related stories. From their first tampon applications, to getting a period mid-Doughboys recording, and the times they've worn underwear incorrectly. | ||||
64 | "64: Eskimo Sisters w/ Skyler Hurt" | 1:06:14 | February 15, 2019 | |
Nicole met Skyler through Tinder, and they turned out to be eskimo sisters. Things got weird in their relationship real fast when Nicole began dating her ex-boyfriend's ex-girlfriend - without him knowing. Nicole questions Skyler on why she swiped right on her, why they continued dating despite Nicole's smoking, and asks if she would've still dated her if she hadn't known her work. Skyler gives Nicole the cold hard truth why they stopped dating. | ||||
65 | "65: Why You Need Couple's Therapy w/ Naomi Ekperigin" | 1:08:31 | February 22, 2019 | |
Naomi Ekperigin (Broad City) shares her experience dating on Craigslist, why every couple should go to couple's therapy. Nicole describes why she loves going to weddings, and her ideal proposal. Also, Nicole gets a crazy text from her sister, and helps her find a husband. | ||||
66 | "66: How to Kiss w/ Matt Ingebretson" | 0:59:37 | March 1, 2019 | |
Matt Ingebretson (Corporate) talks all about kissing - the stress of going in for the first kiss, when to use tongue, and whether you should keep your eyes open or closed for the duration of it. They also discuss whether being on TV has helped their dating life, and what a "date night" looks like for couples in the modern day. Nicole realizes she's moaning in her sleep. |
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External links
- Why Won't You Date Me? on Stitcher