First, You Cry

TV news correspondent Betty Rollin (Moore) is giving a television report on the dangers of breast cancer, hoping that it will make women more aware of preventative measures. At home, Betty's husband Arthur Heroz (Perkins), a successful author, comments on how a lump in Betty's left breast has grown appreciably harder since she had it examined some time ago. Betty promises to make a follow-up exam. The subsequent checkup, however, leads to a diagnosis of cancer. Following a period of fear and denial, Betty agrees to a biopsy, which, due to the cancer's spread, leads to an immediate mastectomy. Upon leaving the hospital, Betty tries to deal with her varied emotions, along with those of her self-involved spouse, former lover, mother and friends. When she can't perform simple tasks like putting on a robe, Betty falls into depression. She sees herself as "damaged goods", leading to dramatic intimacy issues with Arthur.

Betty returns to work, but feels only awkwardness with colleagues. Things worsen when Betty finally looks at her scar, and assumes that all men will now be repulsed by her body. When husband Arthur becomes increasingly distant, she reunites with former beau David (Crenna). She goes to live with him in Philadelphia, quitting her job and leaving her friends behind. After a period of bliss, however, Betty still finds herself unhappy. She the decides to write a book about her travails, leading to an overhaul of her life, both professionally and personally.

• Mary Tyler Moore as Betty Rollin
• Anthony Perkins as Arthur Heroz
• Jennifer Warren as Erica Wells
• Richard Dysart as Dr. Brennerman
• Don Johnson as Daniel Easton
• Florence Eldridge as Mrs. Rollin
• Patricia Barry as Anne
• Antoinette Bower as Marsha
• Richard Crenna as David Towers
• Vivi Janiss as Martha

First, You Cry was shot from February 14 to March 1978: exterior scenes were filmed on location in New York City and interior scenes were filmed at CBS Studio Center in Studio City, California.

• Nominated: 1979 Golden Globe Award – Best Motion Picture Made for Television
• Nominated: 1979 Primetime Emmy Award – Outstanding Drama or Comedy Special
• Nominated: 1979 Primetime Emmy Award – Outstanding Film Editing for a Limited Series or a Special (James Galloway)
• Nominated: 1979 Primetime Emmy Award – Outstanding Lead Actress in a Limited Series or a Special (Mary Tyler Moore)
• Nominated: 1979 Primetime Emmy Award – Outstanding Music Composition for a Limited Series or a Special (Peter Matz)
• Nominated: 1979 American Cinema Editors – Best Edited Television Special (James Galloway)
• Nominated: 1979 Directors Guild of America Award – Outstanding Directorial Achievement in Specials/Movies for TV/Actuality (George Schaefer)

The film was parodied on the November 17, 1979 episode of Saturday Night Live hosted by Bea Arthur, in a sketch titled "First He Cries". In the sketch, a husband (played by Bill Murray) is distraught over his wife's (played by Gilda Radner) mastectomy. The sketch was controversial and received over 200 calls and 300 letters of complaint. Betty Rollin herself wrote a letter in support of the sketch.

MTM Home Video released the film First You Cry in 1993.

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