Heather Has Two Mommies

The idea for Heather Has Two Mommies was not Newman's own.[5] While out for a walk, Newman was approached by lesbian parents and asked to write a children's story about a family like theirs.[5] The parents explained that there were no books that they could show their daughter that portrayed the life of a family with lesbian parents.[5] Newman wrote the story for this purpose, but did not expect the book to gain widespread controversy.[5]

The story is about a child, Heather, raised by lesbian women: her biological mother, Jane, who gave birth to her after artificial insemination, and her biological mother's same-sex partner, Kate. At Heather's playgroup, her family situation is discussed simply and positively, as are those of other children in other family units.[6] At first, Heather becomes upset when she realizes that many of her other peers at the playgroup have a daddy and she does not. Molly, the caretaker at the play group, ensures that all the children at the play group understand that all families are special and no family type is better than any of the others.[7]

From the Wrong Side of Town, album by Ruby and the Rednecks that includes the song "Heather Has Two Mommies"

The American Library Association ranked it the 9th most frequently challenged book in the United States in the 1990s; a similar phenomenon can be seen in the Sugartime! episode of the American television series Postcards from Buster.[8] In the 1980s, comparable political controversy erupted in the United Kingdom over the book Jenny Lives with Eric and Martin. Comedian Bill Hicks famously included the book in one of his stand-up routines.

The book and the controversy over it were parodied in the 2006 Dav Pilkey book Captain Underpants and the Preposterous Plight of the Purple Potty People. In it, the parallel-universe Miss Singerbrains (the school librarian) invites the two main characters, George and Harold, to read the book Mommy Has Two Heathers.

Doris Robinson, the regional services manager at Fairview Park Regional Library in Cleveland, claims that books such as Heather Has Two Mommies should have a place in schools and libraries around the country, "as long as they tastefully, accurately and appropriately portray the subject matter."[9] Furthermore, Robinson recognizes that keeping LGBTQ subject matter from children would do them a disservice as homosexual couples become a recognized part of society.[9] Robinson asserts that because homosexual families deserve respect, exposing children to Heather Has Two Mommies will teach them to be more accepting of these families.[9]

John Leo, the editor in chief of Minding the Campus, believes that while accepting homosexuals in today's society is important, books like Heather Has Two Mommies have a different purpose, to "celebrate the wonders of double-mommy and double-daddy households."[10] Leo insists that there is a difference between celebrating and respecting various types of familial structures and that schools should not take part in promoting certain familial structures over others.[10] Leo is concerned that various religious conflicts could occur when children are celebrating gay family structures at school.[10]

In Fayetteville, North Carolina, people tried to have Heather Has Two Mommies banned from local libraries and schools.[11] They were unsuccessful in their attempts, so instead they paid for advertisements in local newspapers to convince citizens to vote against the construction of 5 new libraries in the Fayetteville area.[11] The advertisements conveyed that the libraries were in "pursuit of legitimizing homosexuality" and compared homosexuality to "prostitution, bestiality or incest".[11]

According to Jennifer Esposito, a professor at Georgia State University, Leslea Newman attempts to normalize lesbian family structure in Heather Has Two Mommies but unintentionally does just the opposite.[12] When Heather acknowledges that she does not have a daddy it makes her sad. Esposito argues that because Heather gets upset that she does not have a father instead of wondering why she has two mothers, it portrays that there is a problem with having two mommies.[12] Furthermore, Esposito believes that Heather Has Two Mommies "dequeers" lesbian households by making them equivalent to heterosexual households.[12] She believes that this does a disservice to those children that live in those households because their experience in the real world is a lot different than what is portrayed in the story.[12] Esposito thinks that books dealing with lesbian families should take the approach of informing people that these households are just as normal as other households while at the same time addressing the unique problems they face.[12]

• Homosexuality in children's literature
• Daddy's Roommate - portrays a gay couple in a similar positive light. It became point of discussion in the 2008 US Presidential Election.[13]
• The Rainbow Cubby House - similar book in Australia.
• Jenny Lives with Eric and Martin - similar book that caused controversy in the United Kingdom.
• "Bart Has Two Mommies" - an episode of The Simpsons parodying the controversy.

• Fahrenbruck, Mary L.; Collins, Tabitha Parry (2019). "The De-queering of Heather Has Two Mommies". In Johnson, Holly; Mathis, Janelle; Short, Kathy G. (eds.). Critical Content Analysis of Visual Images in Books for Young People: Reading Images. New York: Routledge. pp. 227–244. doi:10.4324/9780429426469-13. ISBN 978-1-138-38706-5.
• Mason, Derritt (2020). "What Having Two Mommies Looks Like Now: Queer Picture Books in the Twenty-First Century". In op de Beeck, Nathalie (ed.). Literary Cultures and Twenty-First-Century Childhoods. Cham: Palgrave Macmillan. pp. 109–137. doi:10.1007/978-3-030-32146-8_6. ISBN 978-3-030-32146-8.