India Oxenberg

Oxenberg was born on June 7, 1991 to Catherine Oxenberg and William Weitz Schaffer.[1] Oxenberg's father was arrested in 1992 for smuggling marijuana from Thailand, reportedly profitting $50 million from drug trading.[2] She is a granddaughter of Princess Elizabeth of Yugoslavia and Howard Oxenberg, a Jewish dress manufacturer.[3][1][4] As a granddaughter of Princess Elizabeth, Oxenberg is a descendant of Peter I of Serbia and a relative of the Karađorđević dynasty, a royal family that ruled over the Kingdom of Serbia and the Kingdom of Yugoslavia. Her great-grandfather, Prince Paul, ruled as Prince Regent during the minority of his cousin Peter II of Yugoslavia. Oxenberg is also a relative of the British royal family, the Danish royal family, and the Greek royal family through her great-grandmother, Princess Olga of Greece and Denmark.[5][6] She is a niece of writer and fashion designer Christina Oxenberg.

She grew up in Malibu, California and graduated from Malibu High School.[7]

In 2008, Oxenberg was presented to society at Le Bal des débutantes at the Hôtel de Crillon in Paris.[8][9] She was one of two members of the Karađorđević dynasty to make her debut at Le Bal that year, alongside her cousin Victoria de Silva, the daughter of Princess Katarina and Sir Desmond de Silva.[8][10]

Oxenberg (right) with cast members of Noobz in 2011

Oxenberg's first film was the 2001 television drama The Miracle of the Cards. In 2002, Oxenberg played the role of Mattie in the science fiction television film The Vector File.[2][11]

Oxenberg was a cast member on the 2005 Lifetime reality television series I Married a Princess, which followed her family while her mother was married to Casper Van Dien.[12][2] That year, she also had minor role in the video game adaptation of the film Starship Troopers and a role in the Syfy original movie The Fallen Ones.[11]

In 2009, she had a small role in the Disney film Princess Protection Program.[13] In 2012, she portrayed a Pixie Teammate in the comedy film Noobz.[11]

The brand that members of the DOS received.

After leaving college after one year, Oxenberg attended a self-help entrepreneurship course hosted by NXIVM with her mother at the recommendation of a family friend.[1][14][15] They started the program together, but Oxenberg's mother later left.[1] She was mentored by Sarah Edmondson, Mark Vicente, and Bonnie Piesse.[14] In January 2015, after five years in the program, Oxenberg was approached by Allison Mack about joining a secret sorority called Dominus Obsequious Sororium (DOS).[16][17][18] Through this program, Mack became a mentor, called "master" by NXIVM, to Oxenberg.[16][1] Oxenberg was instructed to provide personal family secrets and pose for nude photographs for Mack, who also limited the amount of food Oxenberg could eat and required her to cook and clean for her while living with Mack in Albany, New York.[16][1][19] Throughout this process, Oxenberg was reportedly groomed to become a sexual partner for NXIVM's founder and leader, Keith Raniere.[16][1][20] She was one of multiple women in the organization who became sexual partners with Raniere.[14] In January 2016, Oxenberg was held down and branded with the initials of Raniere.[17] She was told, at the time, that the brand was a representation of the "elements" of NXIVM, and was unaware that they were actually Raniere's initials.[17][2] Oxenberg left NXIVM in 2018.[21]

While Oxenberg was involved in NXIVM, her mother tried to get her out of the organization and expose the cult through media in 2017.[21][17] In 2018, her mother wrote the book Captive: A Mother's Crusade to Save Her Daughter from a Terrifying Cult.[16] In 2019, her mother produced the Lifetime television movie Escaping the NXIVM Cult: A Mother's Fight to Save Her Daughter. Oxenberg officially left NXIVM in the summer of 2018 and moved back to Malibu with her mother.[22][23]

Oxenberg's time in the cult is discussed in the HBO 2020 documentary The Vow.[24] Oxenberg produced and starred in the 2020 Starz documentary series Seduced: Inside the NXIVM Cult.[25][26] The documentary details her life while she was an active member in NXIVM.[16][21][19] In 2020, she also published the memoir Still Learning: A Memoir, which revisits the emotional, physical, and sexual abuse she endured as a member of NXIVM, and her steps to recovery.[1][22]

Oxenberg met Patrick D'Ignazio, a chef, while working as a manager of a restaurant in New York City.[21] They became engaged in August 2020.[27][28] They live in Los Angeles, near Venice Beach.[1]

Oxenberg had her NXIVM brand covered up with a tattoo of a mandala and the inscription "ancora imparo" ("still learning") by a tattoo artist in New York City's East Village.[1]

• The Miracle of the Cards as a stand-in (2001)
• The Vector File as Mattie (2002)
• I Married a Princess as herself (2005)
• Starship Troopers (2005)
• The Fallen Ones as kitten wrangler (2005)
• Princess Protection Program as herself (2009)
• Noobz as Pixie teammate (2012)
• The Vow as herself (2020)
• Seduced: Inside the NXIVM Cult as herself (2020)

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