Alexandra Pelham, Lady Worsley

Alexandra Mary Freesia Pelham, Lady Worsley, CBE (née Vivian; 27 February 1890–21 September 1963) was a British volunteer and courtier.

Alexandra was a daughter of the 3rd Baron Vivian and a godchild of Alexandra, Princess of Wales (later Queen Alexandra). Among her siblings were Hon. Dorothy Maud (d. 1939), who later married General Haig, the senior commander of the British Expeditionary Force during World War I, and Hon. George Crespigny Brabazon, later 4th Baron Vivian (1878-1940).

On 31 January 1911, she married Lt. Charles Pelham, Lord Worsley, the eldest son and heir of the 4th Earl of Yarborough. In 1914, Lady Worsley's husband was killed on active service in Belgium during World War I after only three years of marriage. She purchased the land where Lord Worsley's body was buried in the town of Zandvoorde, and after Worsley's body was re-interred, the land became the site of the Household Cavalry Memorial.[1]

The couple did not have any children and Lady Worsley did not remarry. In 1945, she was appointed an OBE for her service to the war effort with the WVS and became an Extra Woman of the Bedchamber to Queen Elizabeth in 1947. In 1953, she was promoted to a CBE for her work with the Victoria League and died, aged 73, in 1963.