I Really Wish I Hated You
"I Really Wish I Hated You" is a song recorded by American rock band Blink-182. The song was released on September 6, 2019 through Columbia Records, as the fifth and final single from the band's eighth studio album Nine. It was released as a single two weeks before the album was released. It was written by bassist Mark Hoppus, drummer Travis Barker, and guitarist Matt Skiba, as well as producers Andrew Watt and John Feldmann, and songwriters Ali Tamposi and Nathan Perez.
"I Really Wish I Hated You" | ||||
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Single by Blink-182 | ||||
from the album Nine | ||||
Released | September 6, 2019 | |||
Studio | Opra Studios (North Hollywood, California) | |||
Genre | Pop rock[1] | |||
Length | 3:11 | |||
Label | Columbia | |||
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For the band, it was regarded as the toughest song to develop while writing Nine. It went through several iterations—including one involving a collaboration with pop star Miley Cyrus—before the trio settled on a version that suited them best. To promote the single, the band performed it in a pre-taped piece for a broadcast of Monday Night Football. Commercially, "I Really Wish I Hated You" only charted in the U.S., where it peaked within the top 15 of Billboard's rock charts.
Background
"I Really Wish I Hated You" is a collaboration with producer Andrew Watt and songwriters Ali Tamposi and Nathan Perez. Watt sings and plays guitar on the track, and Perez is also credited with guitar. John Feldmann, one of the producers of Nine, also contributed production work, instrumentation and programming, and guitar. The song was mainly recorded at Opra Studios, Barker's studio space in North Hollywood, California.[2] Lyrically, the song centers on a relationship breaking apart.[3]
Skiba and Hoppus regarded it as one of the toughest songs to develop for Nine, noting in an interview that it went through up to five different iterations. Skiba acknowledged that "there was a lot of push and pull from all different sides, and there were a lot of very talented and opinionated cooks in the kitchen from different musical backgrounds" that made finalizing the song difficult. In the end, the trio "chose the version that sounds the most like Blink, while still challenging the boundaries or lack thereof of Blink."[4] An early edit of the song, featuring guest vocals from pop singer Miley Cyrus, surfaced online in April 2020. Hoppus expressed surprise at the leak, and confirmed that one iteration of the track featured the musicians collaborating.[5][6]
Release and commercial performance
The band first teased the release of "I Really Wish I Hated You" on September 5, 2019, utilizing an automated phone number that, when texted, revealed a snippet of the tune.[7] The full song premiered on September 6, 2019.[8] The band played the song live for the first time only days later on September 12 at the Xcel Energy Center in Saint Paul, Minnesota.[9] The performance was recorded and later broadcast on ESPN's Monday Night Football Genesis Halftime Show on September 23, 2019. Following this performance, it entered the top 20 of the US iTunes song sales chart.[10]
"I Really Wish I Hated You" debuted at number 4 of the US Hot Rock Songs, at number 3 of the US Rock Digital Songs and number 6 of the US Alternative Digital Songs. It also peaked at number 13 on Billboards Alternative Songs chart in February 2020.[11]
Critical reception
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Critical reviews of the song were largely negative. Spencer Kornhaber of The Atlantic likened its songwriting to pop singer Halsey, calling its melody for kindergartners.[12] Grant Sharples of online magazine Consequence of Sound similarly found its lyrical content "elementary", "forgettable," and repetitive.[13] Tosten Burks from Spin noted that Hoppus's narrative of navigating a breakup seemed confusing given his status as a married man.[8] Anna Smith of Gigwise too considered it odd that the song focuses on "teenage rejection" considering the band members' ages and cumulative years married.[14] Exclaim!'s Adam Feibel, reviewing Nine, singled it among the LP's "worst offenders," comparing its narrative of a "toxic, dependent" male lover to Drake's 2015 single "Hotline Bling", with only "a fraction of the charm."[15]
In contrast, Billboard columnist Bobby Olivier ranked it the second-best song on the LP, an "earworm" with the "right mix" between modern production and the band's catchy past.[16] Vogue writer Christian Allaire deemed it a "catchy breakup track that veers way more pop than punk."[17] Pitchfork contributor Nathan Smith viewed it a transparent bid for mainstream popularity, theorizing it was inspired by the Chainsmokers,[18] with whom the band indeed collaborated with later in 2019 with the single "P.S. I Hope You're Happy".[19]
Track listing
- Digital download
- "I Really Wish I Hated You" – 3:11
Personnel
Credits adapted from the album's liner notes.[2]
Locations
- Recorded at Opra Studios (North Hollywood, California)
- Engineered at Foxy Studios (Los Angeles, California); SARM Studios (London, England)
- Mixed at MixStar Studios (Virginia Beach, Virginia)
- Mastered at The Mastering Place (New York City)
Personnel
- Blink-182
- Matt Skiba – vocals, guitars
- Mark Hoppus – vocals, bass guitar
- Travis Barker – drums, percussion
Design
- Chris Feldmann – art direction, design
- Mark Rubbo – CGI and neon design
- RISK – title
Production
- Ali Tamposi – songwriting
- Andrew Watt – producer, songwriting, instrumentation and programming, guitar, vocals
- Andrew "Schwifty" Luftman – production coordinator
- Dave Kutch – mastering
- David "Dsilb" Silberstein – production coordinator
- Drew "Grey Poupon" Salamunovich – production coordinator
- Dylan McLean – engineer
- Nathan Perez – songwriting, additional production, instrumentation and programming, guitar
- Jeremy "Jboogs" Levin – production coordinator
- John Feldmann – producer, songwriting, instrumentation and programming, guitar
- John Hanes – mix engineer
- Samantha Corrie "SamCor" Schulman – production coordinator
- Sarah "Goodie Bag" Shelton – production coordinator
- Scot Stewart – engineer
- Serban Ghenea – mixing
- Zvi "Angry Beard Man" Edelman – production coordinator
Charts
Weekly charts
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Year-end charts
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References
- "blink-182 – NINE (Album Review) – Wall Of Sound". Wallofsoundau.com. Retrieved October 26, 2019.
- NINE (liner notes). Blink-182. US: Columbia Records. 2019. 19075963222.CS1 maint: others (link)
- Schaffer, Claire (September 6, 2019). "Hear Blink-182's New Breakup Track 'I Really Wish I Hated You'". Rolling Stone. Retrieved April 17, 2020.
- Rollins, Wendy; Hoppus, Mark; Skiba, Matt (July 29, 2019). Wendy Rollins Interviews Blink-182 (YouTube video). Atlanta, Georgia: Alt 105.7. Event occurs at 2:58. Retrieved September 24, 2019.
- Richardson, Jake (April 13, 2020). "An Unreleased Blink-182 and Miley Cyrus Song Just Leaked: Listen". Loudwire. Retrieved April 17, 2020.
- Hill, Eliot (April 13, 2020). "Mark Hoppus Confirms There's An Unreleased Blink-182 And Miley Cyrus Collab". iHeart.com. Retrieved April 17, 2020.
- "Check Out A Sneak Peek Of blink-182's New Single, I Really Wish I Hated You". Kerrang!. September 5, 2019. Retrieved April 17, 2020.
- Burks, Tosten (September 6, 2019). "Blink-182 – "I Really Wish I Hated You"". Spin. Retrieved April 17, 2020.
- Riemenschneider, Chris (September 13, 2019). "Rap-rock odd couple Blink-182 and Lil Wayne a hard sell in St. Paul". Star Tribune. Archived from the original on September 14, 2019. Retrieved September 16, 2019.
- Cantor, Brian (September 24, 2019). "Blink-182's "I Really Wish I Hated You" Rockets Into Top 20 On US iTunes Sales Chart Following Monday Night Football". Headline Planet. Retrieved September 24, 2019.
- https://www.billboard.com/music/blink-182/chart-history/MRT/song/1162560
- Kornhaber, Spencer (September 20, 2019). "Blink-182's Secret Seriousness". The Atlantic. Retrieved April 17, 2020.
- Sharples, Grant (September 19, 2019). "Blink-182's NINE Embraces Pop and Mostly Abandons Punk". Consequence of Sound. Retrieved September 22, 2019.
- Smith, Anna (September 18, 2019). "'Far from groundbreaking, but definitely satisfying'". Gigwise. Retrieved April 17, 2020.
- Feibel, Adam. "Blink-182 Nine". exclaim.ca. Retrieved April 17, 2020.
- Olivier, Bobby (September 20, 2019). "Every Song Ranked on Blink-182's 'Nine'". Billboard. Retrieved April 17, 2020.
- Allaire, Christian (September 20, 2019). "It's 2019. What Does Blink-182 Want to Say?". Vogue. Retrieved April 17, 2020.
- Smith, Nathan (September 28, 2019). "Blink-182: NINE Album Review". Pitchfork. Retrieved April 17, 2020.
- Bein, Kat (December 2, 2019). "The Chainsmokers Announce New Collab With Blink-182". Billboard. Archived from the original on December 3, 2019. Retrieved April 17, 2020.
- "Blink-182 Chart History (Hot Rock & Alternative Songs)". Billboard. Retrieved October 6, 2019.
- "Blink-182 Chart History (Alternative Airplay)". Billboard. Retrieved February 15, 2020.
- "Alternative Songs – Year-End 2020". Billboard. Retrieved December 7, 2020.
- "Billboard Hot Rock & Alternative Songs". Billboard. Retrieved December 3, 2020.