Mary Cyrene Burch Breckinridge

Mary Cyrene Burch was born on August 16, 1826 in Georgetown, Scott County, Kentucky to Clifton Rhodes Burch (d. 1834)[1] and Alethia Viley (d. 1838).[2] Her parents died when she was young and she was educated at boarding schools.[3]

After the Civil War ended in 1865, in which her husband served as the last Confederate States Secretary of War, he was indicted by the Federal government for high treason. Fearing that he would be put on trial, he fled the country, first into the wilds of Florida, then across the Caribbean to Cuba.[2]

In June 1865, Breckinridge settled initially in exile in Canada, living abroad for three years, traveling to England, France, and the Middle East. The Breckinridge family spent the summer of 1866 in Niagara, on Lake Ontario,[4] where they visited with family and friends,[2] including his cousin Mary Cabell Breckinridge Porter, widow of their cousin Col. Peter A. Porter, who died during the Battle of Cold Harbor, fighting for the Union side.[2]

The family settled in Toronto, Canada, where Breckinridge met other Confederate exiles, including the freed Jefferson Davis. Their daughter Mary later stated that exile was a quiet relief for Mary Burch Breckinridge, it was hard on John. He later rejoined his family in Canada and moved into a house that was within view of the United States border. Following President Andrew Johnson's amnesty for all former Confederates on Christmas Day 1868, John and Mary Breckinridge returned to the US in February 1869.[2]

On December 12, 1843, after a brief courtship, she was married to John Cabell Breckinridge, son of Joseph "Cabell" Breckinridge (1788–1823), the 13th Secretary of State of Kentucky, and Mary Clay Smith. Shortly after their marriage, they purchased a home for $1,250 in Georgetown near Breckinridge's law practice.[5] Together, they had six children, including:[6]

• Joseph Cabell Breckinridge II (1844–1906), a prominent New York attorney who married Sallie Frances Johnson, daughter of Robert Ward Johnson
• Clifton Rhodes Breckinridge (1846–1932), an Arkansas Congressman, who married Katherine Carson[7]
• Frances "Frannie" Breckinridge (1848–1924), who married John Andrew Steele (1840–1921)[6]
• John Milton Breckinridge (1849–1850), who died young.
• John Witherspoon Owen Breckinridge (1850–1892), a member of California State Assembly from 1884 to 1885, who married Louise Tevis, daughter of Lloyd Tevis, the first president of Wells Fargo Bank.[8]
• Mary Desha Breckinridge (1854–1928), who married Charles Anson Maltby (b. 1848)[6]

In 1875, Mary Breckinridge was widowed. She later died at her daughter's home in University Heights, Bronx on October 8, 1907.[2][1][9] She was buried at Lexington Cemetery in Lexington, Kentucky.[10]

• Breckinridge family
• Ladies' Confederate Memorial