So Sad

In his 1980 autobiography, I, Me, Mine, George Harrison recalls that he started writing "So Sad" in 1972 while in New York.[2] He reproduces his original lyrics in the book, written on stationery from the Park Lane Hotel in Manhattan.[3] Harrison identifies this period as when he was breaking up with his first wife, Pattie Boyd,[2] although the couple did not formally separate until July 1974, when Boyd left him for Eric Clapton.[4]

Al Aronowitz, a New York-based journalist and a friend of the Harrisons,[nb 1] later expressed his surprise at the failure of their marriage, saying: "I never saw the breakup coming … around them everything seemed magical."[8] Harrison and Boyd met on the set of the Beatles' film A Hard Day's Night in 1964 and were married two years later.[9] By the late 1960s, however, they had begun to grow apart due to Harrison's preoccupation with meditation and other spiritual pursuits.[10][11][nb 2] In an effort to regain her husband's attention, in 1970,[15] Boyd responded to Clapton's long-held infatuation with her, only to reject his advances at that time.[14] Unable to conceive a child, and with Harrison averse to adoption,[16] Boyd resumed her career as a fashion model in May 1971, an activity that sat at odds with his spiritual convictions.[17][18] According to Harrison biographer Elliot Huntley, the first public signs of a rift in the marriage came in August 1972.[19] That month, Harrison travelled alone through Europe to Portugal to visit Gary Wright,[20] who then "played the diplomat" by fending off press speculation regarding Boyd's absence.[19]

Author Ian Inglis describes "So Sad" as the first Harrison composition to "explicitly address the collapse of his marriage".[21] The song was copyrighted to Harrisongs[22] in November 1973 as "So Sad (No Love of His Own)",[23] a title that recalls that of the Everly Brothers' hit "So Sad (To Watch Good Love Go Bad)".[24] Along with his song "So Sad", Harrison's 1974 album Dark Horse included a version of the Everly Brothers' "Bye Bye, Love",[25] the lyrics of which he altered to sarcastically address Boyd's eloping with Clapton.[26][27] While expressing confusion over the motivation behind this reworking of "Bye Bye, Love", Inglis views "So Sad" as a reflection of the profound sense of loss that Harrison genuinely felt.[28] Among other examples of the depth of the couple's shared experiences, Inglis cites Boyd's role as Harrison's companion at the height of Beatlemania, their joint embrace of Indian spirituality, and her presence throughout his emergence as a solo artist.[21]

Winter in New York City, where Harrison began writing the song in 1972

"So Sad" is in 4/4 time throughout, while its musical key changes from C major in the verses to D major over the choruses.[29] The song opens and closes with a descending, eight-bar instrumental passage.[29] In between these two passages, it comprises three combinations of verse and chorus.[30]

While Clapton has commented on Harrison's "cavalier" attitude to his pursuit of Boyd in 1970,[31] and Boyd has described her husband's behaviour as "cold and indifferent",[32] the song conveys his despair at the failure of their relationship.[1][21] In his lyrics, Harrison revisits the weather-themed imagery of his late-period Beatles compositions "All Things Must Pass" and "Here Comes the Sun".[33] Whereas the latter song conveyed optimism and rejuvenation, however, "So Sad" reflects the onset of winter and, in author Simon Leng's description, "hope replaced with tiredness, sunshine supplanted by gloom".[1] Author Bruce Spizer writes that the opening lines alone – "Now the winter has come / Eclipsing the sun / That has lighted my love for some time" – evoke "the opposite emotions of [Harrison's] uplifting 'Here Comes the Sun'".[34][nb 3]

The singer's viewpoint changes between the first and third person during the song.[1][21] At the start of the choruses,[30] Harrison describes himself as the protagonist who "feels so alone / With no love of his own".[21] These words accompany a chord sequence – comprising D major, D augmented, D6 and E7[29] – over which the melody ascends, creating musical tension.[35] The ensuing refrain provides what Leng terms "cathartic release" with the repeated phrase "So sad / So bad".[35]

While he expresses sorrow throughout the song, Harrison avoids detailing the reasons for the end of the relationship.[21] In the second verse, he sings of "the problem of just being there"[30] – a line that theologian Dale Allison interprets as central to Harrison's philosophical outlook, which espoused striving to transcend the mundane aspects of human existence.[36]

Author Joshua Greene describes "So Sad" as a song that tells of "cold winds, lost love, and dreams abandoned".[37] In the final verse, Harrison urges his lover to give "the dawn of the day" to someone who can rekindle their shared dream. He concludes with a lyric that Inglis deems poignant in its revelation of the singer's feelings of loss: "It's too late for to make a new start.[21]

"So Sad" was the oldest of the songs written by Harrison and recorded for Dark Horse,[69] the sessions for which began in November 1973.[34] Author Peter Doggett describes Friar Park as having become "a haven of adulterous intrigue" by this time, with Harrison conducting an affair with Maureen Starkey,[70] the wife of his former Beatles bandmate Ringo Starr.[71] This dalliance followed an episode of wife-swapping between the Harrisons and the Woods,[16] when Wood embarked on a brief affair with Boyd in the Bahamas as Harrison holidayed with Wood's wife Krissy in Portugal.[72][73] Late that year, rumours of problems in the Harrisons' marriage circulated[74][75] after Wood announced to the British press that "my romance with Patti is definitely on".[76]

The basic track for "So Sad" was taped at FPSHOT with Phil McDonald as the recording engineer.[77] Aside from Harrison, the musicians included Hopkins (on piano) and Starr and Keltner (on drums).[78] According to Starr's comments in a contemporary interview, the session took place in November 1973;[79] while confirming this date in a press conference the following year, Harrison said that Voormann also participated on bass.[80] The bass part was subsequently overdubbed by Willie Weeks, whom Harrison first met in June 1974[34][81] while they were both working on Wood's first solo album, I've Got My Own Album to Do.[82][83] Harrison played a wide range of instruments on the song. Credited as "guitars and the other things",[84] these include 12-string acoustic guitars, electric piano and slide-guitar parts.[34][35]

Due to his other commitments, which included setting up Dark Horse Records and organising his and Ravi Shankar's joint North American tour,[85][86] Harrison had to complete songs such as "So Sad" in Los Angeles in October 1974.[87] There, the combination of recording and tour rehearsals overtaxed his voice,[88] leading to him contracting laryngitis,[89][90] which marred his vocal performances on Dark Horse and during the subsequent tour.[91][92][93] While ruing that Dark Horse made Harrison's affliction "a matter of public record", authors Chip Madinger and Mark Easter consider that the subject matter of "So Sad", like the album's title track, invited this more tortured style of singing.[91] In his description of the completed recording, Leng views the song as a "harrowing encounter, a far more savage affair than the Alvin Lee take", due to the musical arrangement and the "pained mood" established by Harrison's vocals.[35] He adds that the "weeping slide guitar riffs" contribute to a musical catharsis that recalls Lennon's primal therapy-inspired Plastic Ono Band album.[94]

Apple Records issued Dark Horse in December 1974,[96] with "So Sad" sequenced as the third track on side one of the LP.[97] It appeared as the second of three autobiographical songs detailing Harrison's troubled personal life,[98] preceded by "Simply Shady", his account of decadence in the music industry,[99][100] and followed by "Bye Bye, Love".[101] During his pre-tour press conference in October, Harrison likened the album to the television soap opera Peyton Place.[80] He also expressed his happiness for Boyd and Clapton,[102] saying: "Eric Clapton has been a close friend for years … I'd rather she was with him than some dope."[80]

Like the Harrison–Shankar North American tour, Dark Horse received mainly unfavourable reviews from music critics, many of whom condemned Harrison for his hoarse singing and for having rushed the recording to capitalise on the tour.[103][104] In his highly unfavourable critique for Rolling Stone,[105][106] Jim Miller considered "So Sad" to be "one of the album's few resonant moments" and a song that "probably tells the truth" regarding Harrison's state of mind, unlike "Bye, Bye Love", which he found "a sick man's idea of a joke".[107][108] Bob Woffinden of the NME labelled "So Sad" "a trite, self-pitying number, both unoriginal and lifeless, with the vocals again sounding portentous and unnatural". Woffinden added: "When somebody sings 'While his memory raced/with much speed and great haste', you just know the lyricist is floundering and filling in lines."[109]

Writing in Circus Raves magazine, Michael Gross described the track as "luxurious", with a guitar introduction that "[speaks] to the poverty of loneliness".[110] Billboard's reviewer said the album was "an excellent one" and listed "So Sad" first among its "best cuts".[111] In his 1977 book Beatles Forever, Nicholas Schaffner similarly identified the track as a highlight of Dark Horse, adding that the effect of the opening guitar collage made for "delectable listening".[112]

Simon Leng considers "So Sad" to be the antithesis of "Here Comes the Sun", marking "the temporary death of George's Krishna dream" as spiritual conviction proves inadequate against "the human pain of separation".[1] He comments on how the Dark Horse version was "[t]he subject of scorn on release", yet Lee and LeFevre's recording of "So Sad" "merited not a single critical sneer" the year before; according to Leng, this contrast "illustrates the difficulty of being George Harrison in 1974".[35][nb 7] Writing in their Solo Beatles Compendium, Chip Madinger and Mark Easter view the recording as "one of the more impressive tunes" on Dark Horse, adding that Harrison's "12-string guitar work is particularly striking".[23]

AllMusic's Richard Ginell nominates "So Sad" as one of two "AMG track picks" on Dark Horse.[25] Writing for the music website Something Else!, Nick DeRiso includes the song among the "five often-forgotten gems" from Harrison's Apple Records discography, and notes its "elegiac tone", similar to that of Living in the Material World.[114] Reviewing Harrison's career for Goldmine magazine in 2002, Dave Thompson described "So Sad" as overlong but "classic Harrison" nevertheless.[115]

New Zealand Herald journalist Graham Reid dismisses Dark Horse as a "sloppy and slapdash album" before adding: "but as always he could craft a lovely melody. So Sad mightn't find him in great voice but you can hear a fine song in there as he explores his inner loneliness …"[116] Writing for vintagerock.com, Shawn Perry describes the track as "ruefully poignant" and a song that "overflows with a flavour [of] simple and sincere beauty".[117]

In his liner-note essay to the 2003 reissue of On the Road to Freedom, Chris Welch concludes by referring to Lee's sorrow at the death of Harrison in November 2001, as well as his satisfaction that "So Sad" "is part of an album that recalls the carefree days of rock'n'roll fun – and freedom".[66] Iain Matthews, a former member of Fairport Convention,[118] released a cover of the song on his 1993 compilation Orphans & Outcasts, Vol. 1.[119] In 2011, Matthews' version appeared on the multi-artist Harrison Uncovered CD,[120] which accompanied a feature by Mojo tying in with the release of Martin Scorsese's documentary George Harrison: Living in the Material World.[121]